Saturday, October 24, 2015

8 years

Yesterday was 10 Muharram 1437 in Hijrah calendar. It's also known as Ashura Day and also my wedding anniversary in Hijrah date. This year, it fall on Friday. Alhamdulillah, we have reached 8 years milestone in our marriage. Compare to other older couples, we are still young, a lot to learn about each other. There's more coming our ways and so far we have successfully faced it with laughter and sometimes sadness. 

Marriage life is not easy, it required a lot of works from both individual and also the environment. What I learned so far about my married life is, it required trust, patience, tolerance, laughter and most importantly, iman. Sometimes things don't work out like we planned, but it doesn't mean it will end our lives. It means that we are destined for other plans. That is why it is important to have iman and patience. 

Another thing that I think important is being supportive of each other. I realized that sometimes just because we are comfortable with each other, we tend to be each others biggest critics. It's fine to provide constructive criticism but being a plain jerk or negative all the time is no fun to be around. Just provide your support and if you think their plan is not going to work or require a lot of resources, you can discuss about it. Just don't shut the conversation. Because one day, they will find someone who wants to listen.

This 8 years has brought us all over the places around the world. It was an adventure that I never thought I will be part of but I'm glad I am in that adventure with the right partner.

For now, everyday I pray that our marriage is full of blessing from Allah, strengthen by taqwa, surround by happiness and lasting until end of our life and continue in Jannah. Amiin.


1 comment:

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