Since Hallyu Wave has spread across the world, Korean dramas are shown in all tv channels and Astro even has 2 dedicated channels for the K-Drama fans. Honestly, without embarrassed, I admit that I'm one of them. Their drama is so addictive and bring you out of your current mundane daily life to another world. Me being me, I'm only watching those romantic, funny and melt-your-heart kind of drama with handsome and pretty actors and actresses. I avoid those serious and thriller type of drama. If I want to distract myself from my daily life, might as well goes to the extreme happiness rather than making you depress right.
From the drama that I watched, I noticed that their romantic-ness are somehow over the top and obviously not realistic in real world. In real world, men will not do things like that. Sometimes I'm scared that some naive ladies out there who dream of having a man that will do what the actor did in the drama. I once read in forum that a guy wrote that he was sad that his girlfriend wanted to break with him coz he was not romantic. And the worst part, the girlfriend actually used K-drama as a benchmark of romantic-ness. Haih.. we need to differentiate what is entertainment and what is reality.
In reality, this is what a man will do to show that he loves his woman (based on personal experience):
- Accept that she doesn't know how to cook and patiently teach and help her with cooking
- Ate whatever she cooked even it taste really sucks
- Charge her iPad/phone at night so that she can use her iPad the next day with full battery
- Switched on the light when he went out for his night shift so that she will not come back into dark home
- Support her to follow her dreams
- Be her shoulder to cry on when her dreams face challenges and motivate her to not give up
- Pick up and send her to airport every week
- Bought network wire when she complain the hotel wire not long enough
- Spoon feed her when she sick
- Wait patiently for weekend to watch the new episode of tv series so that they can watch together
- Skip futsal so that he can spend the all night with her before she moved
- Quietly buy breakfast for her before she wake up
- Remember what she likes and dislikes
- Hate people who make her sad
- Help her with the house chores
- Make sure her car is in tip top condition
- Kiss her before he leaves for work everyday
- Provide 24/7 computer technical support
- Never fail to call her everyday
- Become her biggest fan and biggest critic
- Concern about her safety
- Don't let her carry heavy stuff
- Hold her hand when walking
- Always on her side even the world is against her
- Remember her favourite songs
- Frantically search for her when she is not by his side in underwater
- Make sure she always gets the best
- Guide her when she's lost
- Accept her during PMS
- Cuddle her tightly every night
- Keep a portion of his favourite food for her so that she can taste it
- Buy her supplement so she will be healthy
- Encourage her to be healthy
- Respect her belief and principles, never force her into anything
- Love her unconditionally
The list can go on and on and on. Actually the list is based on my husband. I'm so lucky to have him as a husband. He never lavish me flowers, jewellery, poems, poetic words, but his love is clearly seen in his action and decision for me. That's usually not capture in drama. So be wise and appreciate your husband.
Oh, lately I always see posts shared in FB about a good husband needs to do this, this and this. It is always about husband not being good enough and I will judge you if you share that. I will assume that your husband is not doing what you shared no matter how much you try to comment back saying "oh, my husband is the best, he's doing this bla bla" coz if your husband is ok, why you need to share and tagged his name at the first place? If I'm the husband, I will be pissed - why ask him to do things publicly on things that he already doing which giving an indication to public that he's not doing it?
I miss my husband T_T. Can't wait for Thursday!
2 comments:
put on the socks when she's heavily pregnant!
no comment on that pasal tak experience lagi :)
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